Most of you who read my blog know my story. I had a wonderful mother who passed away too early, a father who lives in a different country, and a younger brother who is now a young man. I have some family overseas, but I haven't really kept in touch with them and haven't had any contact since my mother passed. That is all the family I have, but it has been all the family I ever needed.
"In time of test, family is best." That quote is from a Burmese Proverb. It's a simple quote yet it speaks volumes. My parents supported every decision I made when I was younger, and even stood up for me when my decisions turned out to be wrong ones. They fully believed that when a mistake is made, you learn from it and move on. They were there for me through every step of development, and let me lean on them when times were rough. My mom was the best at answering questions with questions that seriously made one think. She was always there no matter how much heartbreak I cause her throughout my teen years.
My brother is one of the best people I will ever know if my lifetime. He was only 12 when our mom passed, but even at that age he was one wise kid. He knew how to handle his emotions, and at times would have to put up with mine. He supported me when we ventured out on our own and tried to make a living with a modest income. He never once blamed me for not being able to attend one of his basketball games nor did he ever blame me for not being able to provide anything other than a modest living. He never asked for more than we could afford nor did he ever want for anything over our budget. He never once questioned why we couldn't have as much as everyone else. He did not complain that we only could eat out once a month although I was a horrible cook, he didn't complain when his friends were getting the latest smartphones and we were still stuck with the basics, he didn't complain about not having any cable, nor did he ever complain about having to work to help support me. To this day, he still thanks me for all that I've done to support him. My question would be: where would I be without him? I don't think I would have made it this far.
"In time of test, family is best." Yes, I do believe family is best and I am thankful for my family.